"One" Is a Lonely Number!
If you are feeling alone and isolated in your job search, it doesn't have to be that way. If you feel you're the only one looking for a job, you have plenty of company. Feeling isolated usually means the job seeker has confined themselves to their home and spends all day looking for jobs on the Internet. They may be home alone all day long, and the feeling of isolation and disconnection from the world becomes stronger with each passing day.
The good news is, you have the power to change this. Being isolated from the world IS one of the worst things you can do and will only bring you down, can cause varying degrees of depression, and certainly doesn't make you attractive to employers, or doesn't do much to accelerate your job search.
So what can you do when you are feeling totally isolated?
1. First, get out of your home because the jobs are not in your computer... it will be a sheer miracle if you do get an interview this way. But if you want things to happen, then go where the business people are... they are in their offices, at professional meetings, at conferences, having lunch, etc. Mingle with them, get out and about, be SEEN, be visible. Besides being the ABSOLUTE best way to find a job, your feeling of isolation will diminish.
2. Second, do some volunteer work. Select organizations you believe in and invest a couple of hours each week volunteering. It will make you feel great about yourself, you will be helping others, and your isolation will become a thing of the past.
3. Attend professional meetings. This is where people gather that have similar backgrounds and interests. They know what is going on at other companies and in their industries. They have connections that you need. Become an active member in the organization, volunteer for projects, get involved in committees, talk with other people, follow up with other people you were interested in, etc. Be SEEN, BE VISIBLE, BE ACTIVE.
4. Form a career team of 2-3 people who can help you with research and administrative tasks, and enable you to market yourself and network. Meet with these people regularly.
The whole idea is to get out of your home because the jobs just aren't going to arrive in your e-mail account. There are very simple cures for overcoming isolation. Isolation is a choice a person makes, but it's not the only choice.
I guarantee if you get out of your home and start doing some of the action items I mentioned above, you will feel better and great things will start to happen for you! There are people all around you, just waiting to talk with you! :)

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